Dripple - Sadness

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Who is Dripple?

Dripple is the feeling of sadness , the slow waves that wash over us when something hurts, feels lost, or doesn’t go our way. Sometimes he brings tears, sometimes silence, sometimes just a heavy body.

Dripple isn’t bad; he reminds us how deeply we care. With gentleness, his ripples soften and make room for comfort.

How can we help our Children learn about Dripple?

🤔Start With Curiosity

Try asking your child:

  • “Where do you feel Dripple in your body right now?” (Eyes? Throat? Chest? Shoulders?)

  • “If Dripple had a colour today, what would it be?” (Blue? Grey? Purple?)

  • “What do you think Dripple is trying to tell us?”

🧰Dripple Toolkit/secret soft side

Underneath the sadness, Dripple is really saying: “I need care and comfort.”

You could try:

  • Tears are safe: remind children crying is a healthy release.

  • Ripple Kit: soft blanket, cuddly toy, calming music, or a photo of loved ones.

  • Creative release: draw Dripple as raindrops, waves, or a puddle.

  • Connection rituals:  a cuddle, story, or gentle walk together.

 👇  Dr Nat’s Top Tips for parent, carers and Teachers: When Dripple is around…

Sit beside the sadness. Presence matters more than fixing.


Name the feeling kindly. “It looks like Dripple/sadness is here. That makes sense.”


Validate, don’t dismiss. Swap “cheer up” for “I get why you feel sad.”

Offer comfort and time. Sadness passes more softly when it’s given space.

 🧘 Children’s Disarming strategies for Dripple (Sadness)

🃏 Rain Release
☔️ Let the tears fall, then whisper: “It’s okay to feel.”
This softens the Tearfall into healing water.

🃏 Blue Glow Hug
🤗 Wrap a blanket around your shoulders or hug a soft toy.
Transforms the Soggy Glow into comfort and warmth.

🃏 Sharing Stream
🪷 Tell a trusted person how you feel, even with just one word.
Lightens the weight of the Mood Soak.

🃏 Ripple Breath
🌬 Place your hand on your chest and breathe in slowly, imagining a calm wave rolling in… then out.
Keeps the Hushwave gentle, not overwhelming.

🃏 Gentle Step
👣 Take one small step, then rest. Say: “Slow is still moving.”
Helps lift the Drooproot just enough to keep going.

 🧠Remember

Everyone feels sadness. When our children feel sad it is not that we have failed as parents, sadness is just part of being human.

Children don’t need us to sweep Dripple away, they need us to stay with them until the ripples calm. A good parent, carer, or educator is not one who makes sadness disappear, but one who shows how to meet it with patience, kindness, and self-compassion.